This is not a joke!!!!‏

Hi Boss , 

  


People who do lots of work... 
make lots of mistakes 

People who do less work... 
make less mistakes 

People who do no work... 
make no mistakes 

People who make no mistakes... 
gets promoted 

That's why I spend most of my time 
sending e-mails & playing games at work 
I need a promotion.

Unspoken Words‏

Where are the words I want to say.
Words that usually flow so easily each day.
But none of them can convey a thought so true,
A wonderful friendship that has been given to me by you.
One day we were strangers, next it was "puter pal"
And through that stage we just seemed to sail.
 
Suddenly it seemed, you became my very best friend.
Now, all of my feelings and thoughts to you I must send.
And, I never question this friendship so dear
For I know with a click of my mouse you are here.
Your friendship means the world to me.
And, without you, I wonder where I would be.
 
Beside me you stood when my life was so sad.
You laughed with me when I felt happy or glad.
You sense my smile when I joke and I tease.
And, I need you to stay in my life forever, please.
I give so little and take so much, I know.
But if you ever called for me I'd surely go.
 
Then why are the words unspoken that I want to say
To let you know I treasure your friendship every day?

10 PRINCIPLES‏

Stop and ask yourself today, "How do I really feel about myself? " Before you answer read these ten principles. 

Better yet, keep them before you daily.

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(1) Never think or speak negatively about yourself; that puts you in disagreement with God.

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(2) Meditate on your God-given strengths and learn to encourage yourself, for much of the time nobody else will.

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(3) Don't compare yourself to anybody else. You're unique, one of a kind, an original. So don't settle for being a copy.

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(4) Focus on your potential, not your limitations. Remember, God lives in you! 

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(5) Find what you like to do, do well, and strive to do it with excellence.

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(6) Have the courage to be different. Be a God pleaser, not a people pleaser.

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(7) Learn to handle criticism. Let it develop you instead of discourage you.

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(8) Determine your own worth instead of letting others do it for you. They'll short-change you!

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(9) Keep your shortcomings in perspective - you're still a work in progress.

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(10) Focus daily on your greatest source of confidence - the God Who lives in you !

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You Can Change Your Life‏

You Can Change Your Life


By changing your thinking, you can change your beliefs.
When you change your belief, you change your expectations.
When you change your expectations, you change your attitude.
When you change your attitude, you change your behavior.
When you change your behavior, you change your performance.
When you change your performance, you change your life!

l~*~ ~*~** THE DAY FOR YOU TO COME BACK TO ME **~*~‏

THE DAY FOR YOU TO COME BACK TO ME
 
 
 
I sit here and all I can think about is you and I,
We are apart and I ask you why?
The pain in my heart just won’t go away, 
I want to ring you but I don’t know what to say,
I really want to tell you I want to be with you,
I can’t stand not being by your side,
The hurt I’m feeling makes me want to run and hide,
I want to run to you and hold you near,
Losing you is my greatest fear,
You’re my everything - I love you so,
The love I have for you is more than you could ever know,
I miss you more than words could ever say,
This is another thing that grows with every passing day,
I need you like the earth needs the rain,
I want you to come and take away my pain,
I never thought that being away from someone could make someone ache,
Not being able to touch you - I feel my heart starting to break,
I want to be able to tell you I love you as I look into your eyes,
That way you will know that those words are not lies,
We have something so perfect, great and true,
We are meant to be together and join as one - me and you,
You said you wanted a break - though I don’t,
I can’t do much more than agree,
But I’m wishing for the day for you to come back to me.

What if.....‏

What if.....



What if the road where you walking at is endless..
and every mistake comes back.
what if the footsteps are to heavy to walk further.
and love was everything you had.
what if the wings are broken,so you are stuck in a circle,
and there is no way to fly away or to rewrite the past.
what if you said that everything will be alright, but the problems are just getting bigger,just more and nothing less.
what if there is just one person who can make you happy 
but you messed it up,
and you are trying to get everything back and try to let the devil stop.
what if you try to find the power to still believe,
but pain and misery is everything you receive.
what if someone might see the scars what do you have to tell?
that everything is going OK. and that you are feeling well?
what if everything you had is gone and everything went away.
what if your heart wants to speak but cant find the words to say;
that you are dying inside and that only one person can cure those wounds..

Candle of Love...‏

Candle of Love...

Few people come into our lives
and make everything shine,
but you're one of those
rare and splendid jewels
who makes the whole world bright.
When I was sad, you made me smile.
When I was alone and blue,
you were there for me,
and you made me feel strong enough
to accomplish anything.
Because I appreciate
the many things you do,
more than words could say,
I'm sending you the Candle of Love,
and hoping you receive
many blessings from above.

~*~ ~*~** I CAN... **~*~‏

I CAN...
 
   
 
I can write the saddest poem 
A poem with emotion she left at home
She left a heart hollow and alone
Thinking that the problem is all my own
I can write the saddest words
A piece of paper with letters in herds
But does this mean people will feel my pain?
Can they feel the wetness of the falling rain?
I can write the saddest phrase
A silent significat other left me in a craze
One day now another day vanished
I fell for a love that left me famished
I can write the saddest song
In her heart I guess I didn't belong
So does this mean my life is through?
Does this mean I don't know what to do?
I can write the saddest expression
But will it cure an endless depression?

~ ~*~** How Do You Breathe Alone **~*~‏

HOW DO YOU BREATHE ALONE
 
   
 
When I first met you, I was afraid
Afraid of what I was feeling
I felt love like I had never known
I didn't just feel you in my heart
I felt you in my soul
I had no idea I could feel so much
My life was complicated
I was afraid you wouldn't want to be in my life
I was afraid I couldn't be all that you wanted me to be
Slowly you made me believe I was all that you needed and wanted
That you wanted to be in my life
And when I truly trusted you and let you in
I felt an intense feeling of contentment
A feeling of happiness like I have never known
I felt alive again
Even though we were a long way from working things out
The feeling in my heart and soul
Was something I have never known
Never did I dream you would leave like you did
I never dreamed that the one who gave me such feelings
Feelings I had never felt before
Would take them away 
Take them away without a moments hesitation
I never dreamed the one I trusted and loved with my heart and soul
Would hurt me in the way She knew would hurt me most
Now I am left questioning everything
Everything he ever said
Was our love ever real
Was she ever my soulmate
Was she ever my honey
Was she ever my Pookey
How do you go on
When the one you love so completly leaves
When your soulmate leaves
When every breath was her
How do you breathe alone.

The New Laws of Fashion‏

With more quality available to the American man than ever before, there are also more pitfalls. To help you navigate our expanding sartorial world, here are Esquire's 50 new laws of fashion. Commit them to memory. Break them if you like. (We'll tell you how.) Then go undaunted.

1. YOU WEAR THE CLOTHES, NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.

2. INVESTING IN QUALITY OFTEN MEANS INVESTING IN THE THINGS YOU CAN'T SEE. Like the movement inside a mechanical watch, the full hand-canvasing in a jacket, or the hand-stitched uppers of your shoes.

3. BLUE JEANS ARE GOOD; DARK-BLUE JEANS ARE BETTER. Leave the boot cuts to cowgirls and black denim to ex-cons.

4. CELEBRITIES LOOK GOOD IN CLOTHES FOR TWO REASONS: a) They're famous. b) They have someone whose full-time job is to dress them. Don't get discouraged. Get famous.

5. YOU SHOULD DRESS FOR AIR TRAVEL AS IF IT WERE STILL A PRIVILEGE. Start with a collared shirt and a tailored jacket. And if you can't bear wearing proper shoes, low-key leather sneakers will do. Ditch the sweatpants, though. You're not at the gym. How to break it: Flying private gives you sartorial carte blanche.

6. A WELL MADE AND PROPERLY KEPT SHOE WILL LAST YOU THREE DECADES. When shopping for your feet, remember to invest in leather soles and uppers and Goodyear-worthy welts. Remember, too, that all-leather shoes are easier to rebuild. How to break it: If it's obvious that your loafers are from the seventies, retire them.

7. WOODEN SHOE TREES ARE A GOOD IDEA. But you need only one pair. Put them in the shoes you've been wearing all day. The shoe, warmed and wet from your body heat and perspiration, will contract as it cools over the shape of the tree and return to its original form. Within an hour or two, the tree has done its job. 

8. THERE ARE TWO WAYS YOU SHOULD STORE YOUR TIE: 1) Lay it flat in a drawer. 2) Roll it up like a Swiss roll by folding it once and then rolling it from the narrow end. Both methods allow the tie to settle and regain its shape overnight.

9. BROADEN YOUR COLOR WHEEL. Colors that real men actually look good in, though they don't realize it (one item of clothing at a time, please): pink, turquoise, and coral.

10. IT'S BETTER TO BE OVERDRESSED THAN UNDERDRESSED. Being thought eccentric for wearing a tux to a swim meet is preferable to wearing a T-shirt and jeans to a wedding.

12. IN YOUR MEDICINE CABINET: one razor, one bar of shaving soap, a shaving brush, a comb, deodorant, nail clippers, hair gel, toothpaste, and a toothbrush. Done.

13. BUY THE SUIT THAT FITS, NOT THE ONE YOU WISH YOU COULD FIT INTO. A suit that's too tight will make you look fat. And while an oversized suit may seem more comfortable, in reality you'll just look like a ten-year-old playing dress-up. In between the two is the suit that fits.

14. WOMEN ARE SEXY WHEN WEARING ONE ITEM OF MEN'S CLOTHING. How to break it: Or nothing at all.

15. WATERPROOF AND WATER-RESISTANT: There's a big difference.

16. WET SHOES SHOULD BE DRIED IN A WARM PLACE NEAR AN OVEN (BUT NEVER IN ONE). But be careful: Rapid drying can irreversibly crack the leather.

17. "A WELL-TIED TIE IS THE FIRST SERIOUS STEP IN LIFE." -OSCAR WILDE

18. BE SUSPICIOUS OF THE GUY IN THE STATE U. SWEATSHIRT. Varsity sweatshirts are usually worn by people on whom the educational establishment in question had no lasting or useful impact at all or by people who paid for their kids to go there and would dearly like to advertise the fact. How to break it: Let go of suspicion if you live within twenty miles of a Big Ten school.

19. YOUR EYEGLASSES SHOULD CONTRAST, NOT MIMIC, THE SHAPE OF YOUR FACE. Here's a quick guide, courtesy of renowned eyeglass designer Richard Morgenthal.

Your shape: Heart
Your specs: A heart-shaped face already has a lot of definition. Since your head is top-heavy, go for a geometric frame that gives some width to the lower half of your face.

Your shape: Square
Your specs: Since a square face already has angles, go for a round or oval frame that shapes your cheekbones. A decorative frame with width will often do the trick.

Your shape: Round
Your specs: Avoid dark frames; they only make your face appear heavy. A round face needs direction, so opt for angular and narrow frames-never a square or a circle.

Your shape: Oval
Your specs: A modern rectangle is best for an oval face. Because your face is longer than it is wide, you'll need frames that provide width. If your face is wider than it is long, go the opposite way.

20. IN THE NEW JEANS-AND-A-SUIT-JACKET ENVIRONMENT, A POCKET SQUARE CAN STAND IN FOR A TIE. Here's how.

Astaire: To be done only with a silk handkerchief. Begin by spreading the material across a flat surface and pinching at the center, allowing the fabric to pillow around the pinch. Only an elegant pattern will do.

Churchill: Constructed in the same fashion as the Astaire pocket square but with the additional step of folding up the corners. This style is slightly more ragged in a very purposeful way. Must still be done with silk.

JFK: The structured nature of this style can be done with almost any material: silk, linen, or cotton. Very measured and exact, it calls for a quiet pattern on the hankie and is usually worn by men you'd trust to invest your money.

Bond, James: Straight out of the 1960s comes this straight-across approach. Donned by spies, news anchors, and heads of state, this style is simple and clean. It should be done with a white linen or cotton handkerchief.

21. ALWAYS CHECK MID HUES OF GREEN, BROWN, AND BLUE IN DAYLIGHT BEFORE PURCHASING. What's navy under fluorescent light can look purple in sunlight.

22. EVEN A WELL-FITTED TUX HAS ITS LIMITS. While a perfect-fitting tux makes even the average man resemble James Bond, it does not mean that he'll possess his sexual prowess.

24. LOOK YE NOT TO RUSSELL CROWE FOR STYLE INSPIRATION.

25. SHORT SOCKS ARE FOR ENGLISHMEN AND ITALIAN BUS DRIVERS. You are neither.

26. WHEN IT COMES TO WATCHES, YOU ARE ONE OF TWO TYPES: a quartz guy or a mechanical guy. A quartz watch is eternally accurate, like an atomic clock. A mechanical watch is a tiny metal beauty with hundreds of moving parts, built by Swiss elves. Buy quartz if you simply must know exactly what time it is. Buy mechanical if you like machines. How to break it: Or emulate American presidents and go digital with a rock-solid G-Shock.

27. NEVER BE RUSHED INTO PURCHASING UNCOMFORTABLE SHOES, NO MATTER HOW SHINY THE LEATHER. Beauty is not, at least in this case, pain.

28. LEAVE THE POCKETS OF YOUR SUIT JACKET SEALED, JUST THE WAY THEY CAME. Opening them up to put in cell phones and keys is the quickest way for your suit to lose its shape.
29. WEARING THE SAME SHOES DAY IN AND DAY OUT WILL DRASTICALLY SHORTEN THEIR LIFE SPAN.

30. YOUR TIE'S TIP SHOULD JUST REACH YOUR WAISTBAND.

31. WHILE YOU'RE AT IT, LEARN TO TIE A BOW TIE.

32. THE CLASSIEST COLOR FOR BLACK TIE IS BLACK. How to break it: If you're a maverick, you can try midnight blue or dark chocolate.

33. YOUR TIE KNOT SHOULD ALWAYS CONCEAL THE COLLAR BAND BEHIND IT. If it doesn't, it's tied too loose.

34. WITH A DOUBLE-BREASTED SUIT, IT'S ACCEPTABLE TO HAVE ONLY THE LOWER-RIGHT BUTTON UNDONE. All others should be fastened. If you're wanting to relax, just take the coat off altogether.

35. NEVER BUY ANYTHING YELLOW. How to break it: Unless it's a Lamborghini.

36. OPEN BUTTONHOLES ON THE CUFF OF A SUIT USED TO BE THE SIGN OF HANDMADE QUALITY. NO LONGER. Even low-end designers are using this styling trick to make their wares look better made than they really are. We know your suit is well made, so keep cuffs buttoned up.

37. NO ONE AT THE PARTY WILL EVER NOTICE IF YOU'VE LOST ONE OF YOUR CUFF LINKS. Leave the orphaned one in.

38. POLISH YOUR MID- AND DARK-BROWN SHOES WITH BLACK SHOE POLISH. This will create darker shades near the seams and gradually deepen the patina all over.

39. A MAN SHOULD NOT SHOP FOR MORE CLOTHES; HE SHOULD SHOP FOR BETTER ONES. How do you know what's "better"? Look in your closet, decide which clothes make you walk the tallest, and then up the ante by purchasing only the threads that will have you walking even taller.

40. SOME COLORS ARE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER. SOME ARE NOT.

41. WHEN IT COMES TO BUYING A SUIT, NO MATTER ITS PRICING, CHECK THE FOUR MAJOR ZONES TO SEE IF IT FITS.

1. The hem of your pants should cover the -laces of your shoes and slope slightly downward toward the heel, stopping about an inch above the welt. The front crease of your trouser leg should "break" slightly at mid-shin. If the crease is dead straight, your pants are too short.

2. Your correct waist measurement is not at your hips, as you've been trained to believe. Nor is it at your belly button, as women have been trained to believe. It's halfway in between. While your correct waist measurement may cause initial shock, knowing it will make the suit fit better.

3. The length of your jacket should not be noticeable. Avoid overly short or long cuts. As a general rule, with your hands at your sides, the hem of the jacket should just reach your knuckles. And the sleeve should rest a half inch below your wrist bone.

4. How your jacket fits at the shoulder is the first sign of whether a man knows his size. It fits properly if there's no overhang at the shoulder pad or, conversely, your shoulder does not bulge out at the top of the sleeve. A smooth curving line should fall from sleeve head to cuff.

42. WHEN IT COMES TO PATTERN IN YOUR CLOTHING, LESS IS MORE. However, if you decide to wear more than one pattern at a time, follow this simple rule: The pattern on your tie should be bolder than the one on your shirt.

43. YOUR SHIRT COLLAR FITS PROPERLY IF YOU CAN JUST GET ONE FINGER BETWEEN IT AND YOUR NECK. Any looser and you'll look like Krusty the Clown.

45. NOTHING SAYS "JACKASS" QUITE AS WELL AS A CELL PHONE ON A BELT CLIP. You know who you are.

46. YOU DON'T NEED TO BUTTON EVERY BUTTON. On a two-button suit, button only the top button. On a three-button suit, button only the middle one. On a one-button suit, well, you don't have much choice.

47. SUNGLASSES SHOULD BE WORN ONLY AS SUNGLASSES. And never at night.

48. CHECK YOUR FLY BEFORE ANSWERING THE DOOR.

49. DESPITE THE STYLE FOLLIES OF THE '80S, THEY DID GET A FEW THINGS RIGHT, LIKE THE POLO SHIRT. While the current consensus is to disdain the collar-up approach to this preppy standby, we say flip that polo-shirt collar up as far as it'll go.

50. WHEN IN DOUBT, ASK YOUR TAILOR. How to break it: Better yet

Think Of Those Who Love You...‏

Think Of Those Who Love You...

 
If someone should hurt you 
and say a thing unkind, 
Remember what I write to you, 
and keep these thoughts in mind.
 
For everyone that makes you cry, 
there are three to make you smile, 
And a smile will last for a long, long time, 
but a tear just a little while. 

Don't let someone who hates the world 
cause you to hate it too, 
Behind the clouds is a Golden sun, 
and a sky that's full of Blue. 

If someone said a thing that's cruel, 
don't let it get to you, 
Your achievements are greatly numbered, 
and your faults are very few. 

So if a certain person should act a certain way, 
Think of those who love you. 

AND DON'T LET IT SPOIL YOUR DAY! 

My Cyber Friend ~*~poem‏‏

I haven't ever seen you,
but I know you're really there;
I click you into reality
like magic from the air. 
 
Your voice is like an Angel,
though I really do not hear;
your hug as warm as any
of loved ones I hold dear. 
 
You're always there for comfort,
or a simple word of cheer;
though you're very far away,
I always have you near. 
 
You're a very special friend,
like none I've ever known;
as long as you're in cyberspace
I'll never be alone

11 Dont's(Skin Care)‏‏

 
1.Not Drinking enough water:

This is perhaps the most repeated advice and the least followed. Your body needs at least two litres a day to remove toxins from your system, partly through your kidneys and partly through your skin. Lacking this, toxin build-up will affect your skin as well as your general health, making you tired and dull. Keep that bottle on your desk, and drink!

2. Picking your pimples:

We do it unconsciously, when nervous, or just as a habit. pimples don't harm your face permanently. What leaves untreatable scars is your picking, pinching and playing with them -- scars so deep that even dermatologist cannot get rid of them 100 per cent. Prevention is the best cure, so stop touching your face and start proper anti-acne treatment.

3. Smoking disrupting the normal breathing of Skin:

Smoking beedi,cigar and cigarette blocks the pores on the skin thus disrupting the normal "breathing" of the skin. So a smokers skin grows "older" much faster than that of a non smoker.

4. Shaving the wrong way:

And it isn't just men I'm talking to. Women who use razors for body hair also beware -- shaving against the direction of hair growth (ie from below upwards) causes ingrown hair, damaged follicles and introduces infections into your hair roots that can cause painful recurrent boils. Shave only in the direction of hair growth -- this will prevent damage to your skin.

5. Not using sunscreen on a hill station

You've gone for a high altitude vacation and the cold weather makes you believe you don't need sun protection -- wrong! At higher altitudes, there are lesser layers of atmosphere between you and the sun to filter UV rays, so your ultra-violet exposure increases. You need your sunscreen all the more!

6. Taking hormone supplements for body building:

It isn't just the men, even women who want a 'toned' look quickly take DHEA (DeHydroEpiAndroste rone) supplements. These are known to cause acne even in normal skin, and flare up existing acne. Protein supplements are fine though, and actually help your skin.

7. Not reapplying moisture / sunscreen:

Are you the jet setting type who slaps on lotion in the morning and then spends the next two hours at work without a further thought about your skin? Air conditioned offices sap moisture from your skin in a couple of hours. Also, no sunscreen retains its effect beyond two hours. Apply frequently -- at least during your lunch break, after a quick face wash.

8. Waxing your upper lip / facial hair:

A total nightmare for your delicate facial skin -- the trauma causes tiny microscopic bleeding into your hair follicles that, over time, heal with scarring and end up causing roughness and pigmentation that is extremely hard to treat.

9. Going on a 'proteins only' diet:

Fad diets deprive your skin (and body) of essential nutrients. You need vitamins, minerals, antioxidants and various micronutrients that a single food diet cannot give you. Talk to a professional dietician before embarking on drastic diet plans and get them to prescribe the appropriate nutritional supplements.

10. Late night partying:

Your body sleeps at night, but your skin doesn't -- most of its repair and renewal work is done while you're in bed. Depriving it of the nightly eight hours of rejuvenation will obviously leave it looking dull and tired. Good sleep is a must for good skin!

11. Stressing out:

Stress shows up after years on your heart and blood pressure, but almost immediately on your skin. So listen to your skin when it is trying to tell you something -- patchy complexion, blemishes, dullness, itchy redness, rashes appearing at periods of high stress, acne flare-ups -- all point to unwarranted high stress levels. Try yoga, meditation, exercise, or whatever your best stress buster is.

Poem 4 U !‏

SO LITTLE TIME !!

SO LITTLE TIME TO SAY THINGS
YOU WOULD REALLY LIKE TO SAY.
BEFORE YOU EVEN FIND THE WORDS,
THE TIME JUST SLIPS AWAY.
SO LITTLE TIME TO DO THE THINGS 
YOU FEEL THAT YOU MUST DO.
SO TREASURE, LIKE THE PUREST GOLD,
THE TIME GOD'S GIVEN YOU.
SO LITTLE TIME TO DREAM YOUR DREAMS
FOR YOUTH HAS PASSED ITS PRIME;
AND ALL TOO SOON YOU REALIZE,
THAT THERE'S SO LITTLE TIME. 
SO LITTLE TIME TO REACH THE HEIGHT
TO WHICH YOU'VE BOUND TO CLIMB
FOR SWIFTLY PASS THE YEARS,
AND THERE'S SO LITTLE TIME.
SO LITTLE TIME TO PASS REGRETS;
AND LESS, TO MAKE AMENDS.
YET GOD CAN HEAL THE DEEPEST WOUNDS 
IN CHOSEN, CHERISHED FRIENDS.
SO LITTLE TIME TO SHARE GOD'S LOVE
AND BEAUTY HERE ON EARTH;
AND KNOW, BEFORE HIS ENDLESS TIME,
THEIR MEANING AND TRUE WORTH.
OH, YES, THERE IS SO LITTLE TIME
TO SEEK THE HIDDEN DOOR
THAT OPENS UP TO HEAVEN'S TIME
WHERE TIME'S FOREVER MORE.

Alphabet of Happiness...‏

Alphabet of Happiness...

A--Accept
Accept others for who they are and for the choices they've made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.


B--Break Away
Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.


C--Create
Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.


D--Decide
Decide that you'll be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.


E--Explore
Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you'll learn more about yourself.


F--Forgive
Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.


G--Grow
Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.


H--Hope
Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.


I--Ignore
Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.


J--Journey
Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you'll grow.


K--Know
Know that no matter how bad things seem, they'll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.


L--Love
Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there's room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there's room for endless happiness.


M--Manage
Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you'll suffer less stress and worry. Then you'll be able to focus on the important things in life.


N--Notice
Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.


O--Open
Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there's still much to be thankful for.


P--Play
Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.


Q--Question
Ask many questions, because you're here to learn.


R--Relax
Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.


S--Share
Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.


T--Try
Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You'll be amazed by what you can accomplish. 


U--Use
Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that's wasted has no value. Talent that's used will bring unexpected rewards.


V--Value
Value the friends and family members who've supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.


W--Work
Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.


X--X-Ray
Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you'll see the goodness and beauty within.


Y--Yield
Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you'll find success at the end of the road.



Z--Zoom
Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.

The World For You...‏

The World For You...
Who will ever know how the world was invented,
but we all know why,
it was invented for us,
no matter what happens,
you know it's true,
the world was made for me and you.

Happiest People‏

The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems,
but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect

Words of Wisdom

*It is better to be hated for what  you are

  than  to be loved for what you are not. "Andre Gide"

*The idea that have lighted my way have been kindness, beauty and truth. "Albert Enisten"

      * For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart.

               It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul. "Judy Garden"

*There are some people who live in a dream world

  And there are some who face reality;

And then there are those who turn one into the other.

*Too often we

underestimate the power of

a touch, a simle, a kind

word, a listening ear, an

honest compliment, or the

smallest act of caring, all

of which have the potential

of turn a life around. "leo Buscagila"

* I have said nothing beacuse there is nothing I can say

       that would describe how I feel as perfectly as you deserve it. "Kyle Schmidt"

* The longest journey of any person is the journey inward. "Dag Hammerskjvld"

Happinezz!‏

            "Being happy doesn't mean everything is perfect.

Its mean that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections."

              "Off all things you are wear

your expression is the most important."

"To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love,

       In return, you will receive untold peace and happiness.

Jokes‏

ROMANCE MATHEMATICS
Smart man + smart woman = romance

Smart man + dumb woman = affair

Dumb man + smart woman = marriage

Dumb man + dumb woman = pregnancy 



OFFICE ARITHMETIC

Smart boss + smart employee = profit 

Smart boss + dumb employee = production

Dumb boss + smart employee = promotion 

Dumb boss + dumb employee = overtime 


SHOPPING MATH

A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs.

A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't need. 


GENERAL EQUATIONS & STATISTICS

A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. 

A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife. 

A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. 

A successful woman is one who can find such a man. 


HAPPINESS 

To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.

To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all. 


LONGEVITY 

Married men live longer than single men do, but married men are a lot more willing to die. 


PROPENSITY TO CHANGE

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. 

A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does. 


DISCUSSION TECHNIQUE

A woman has the last word in any argument.

Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument. 


HOW TO STOP PEOPLE FROM BUGGING YOU ABOUT GETTING MARRIED

Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling, telling me, "You're next." They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals. 


SEND THIS TO A SMART WOMAN WHO NEEDS A LAUGH AND TO THE SMART GUYS YOU KNOW CAN HANDLE IT.

Good Morning...‏

Good Morning... 
  
Every right implies a responsibility; 
every opportunity, an obligation; 
every possession, a duty 

7 secrets of Success...

I found the answer in my room.

Roof said: Aim high
Fan said: Be cool

clock said: Every mint. is precious

Mirror said: Reflect before you act

Window said: See the world

Calender said: Be up-to-date

Door said: Push hard to acheive your goals.

Keep Believing Yourself‏

Doubt can stop you in your tracks, it can drain your desire

Beleiving on the other hand can set your world afire

Beleiving in your ability affects the way you act

And produces an air of confindence which influence how others will react

When you beleive you can acheive and beleive it with you soul

You possess a powerful assets, you will most likely reach your goal

Keep beleiving Yourself

THE PICTURE ON THE NIGHT STAND

After a long night of making love, he notices a 

photo of another man on her nightstand by the bed. 

   

He begins to worry. "Is t his your husband?" he 

nervously asks. "No, silly," she replies, snuggling up to him. 

   

"Your boyfriend, then?" he continues. 

   

"No, not at all," she says, nibbling away at his ear. 

   

"Is it your dad or your brother?" he inquires, 

hoping to be reassured. 

   

"No, no, no! You are so hot when you're 

jealous!" she answers. 

   

"Well, who in the hell is he, then?" he demands. 

   

"That's me before the surgery." 

NAME MEANINGS‏

NAME MEANINGS

Instructions : What you do is find out what each letter of your name
means.

Then connect all the meanings and it describes YOU. ( Its TRUE) &( Is'nt 
it GREAT !!)

If you have double or triple letters, just count the meaning once.
For Example : EKTA

E = You are a very exciting person.

K = You like to try new things. 

T = You have an attitude, a big one. 

A = You can be very quiet when you have something on your mind.


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A = You can be very quiet when you have something on your mind.

B = You are always cautious when it comes to meeting newpeople . 

C = You definitely have a partier side in you, don't be shy to show it. 

D = You have trouble trusting people.

E = You are a very exciting person.

F = Everyone loves you.

G = You have excellent ways of viewing people. 

H = You are not judgmental.

I = You are always smiling and making others smile.

J =Jealously

K = You like to try new things.

L = Love is something you deeply believe in.

M = Success comes easily to you. 

N = You like to work, but you always want a break.

O = You are very open-minded. 

P = You are very friendly and understanding.

Q = You are a hypocrite.

R = You are a social butterfly.

S = You are very broad-minded. 

T = You have an attitude, a big one.

U = You feel like you have to equal up to people's standards.

V = You have a very good physique and looks.

W = You like your privacy. 

X =You never let people tell you what to do.

Y = You cause a lot of trouble.

Z = You're always fighting with someone. . 

Every Woman Is Beautiful!‏

A little boy asked his mother,

"Why are you crying?"

"Because I'm a woman", she told him.

"I don't understand," he said.

His mom just hugged him and said,

"And you never will".

 

Later the little boy asked his father,

"Why does mother seem to cry

for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason"

was all his dad could say.

 

The little boy grew up and became a man,

still wondering why women cry.

Finally He put in a call to GOD; when

GOD got on the phone, the man asked,

"GOD, why do women cry so easily?"

 

GOD said, "When I made woman she

had to be special. I made her shoulders

strong enough to carry the weight of the

world; yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure

childbirth and the rejection that many

times comes from her children.



I gave her a hardness that allows her to

keep going when everyone else gives

up and take care of her family through

sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her sensitivity to love her children

under any and all circumstances, even

when her child has hurt her badly.



This same sensitivity helps her make a child's

boo-boo feel better and share in her 

teenagers anxieties and fears.

I gave her strength to carry her husband

through his faults and fashioned her from

his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good

husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes

test her strengths and her resolve to stand

beside him unfalteringly.



And finally, I gave her a tear to shed.

This is hers exclusively to use whenever

it is needed." "The beauty of a woman

in not in her clothes she wears, the figure 

that she carries, or the way she combs 

her hair. The beauty of a woman must be 

seen in her eyes, because that is the 

doorway to her heart, the place

 where love resides."

Pass This Along To All The Beautiful Women You Know.

QUITE INTERESTING‏

...Quite interesting

 Getting married is very much like going to a restaurant with friends.

 You order what you want then, when you see what the other person 

 has, you wish you had ordered that.

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Man: Is there any way for long life?

 Dr: Get married.

 Man: Will it help?

 Dr: No, but the thought of long life will never come. 

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 Why do couples hold hands during their wedding?

 It's a formality just like two boxers shaking hands before the

 fight begins! 
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 Wife: Darling today is our anniversary, what should we do?

 Husband: Let us stand in silence for 2 minutes.
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 It's funny when people discuss Love Marriage vs Arranged.
 It's like asking someone, if suicide is better or being murdered.
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 It is difficult to understand GOD. He makes such beautiful
 things as women and then he turns them into Wives
 If u r married please ignore this msg,
 for everyone else: Happy Independence Day 
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 Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about 

 something you say.
 After marriage, he'll fall asleep before you finish.
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 There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than 

 electronic banking. It's called marriage.
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 Girlfriends r like chocolates, taste good anytime. 
 Lovers r like PIZZAS, Hot n spicy, eaten frequently.

 Husbands r like Dal RICE, eaten when there's no choice
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 Man receives telegram: Wife dead-should be buried or cremated? 
 Man: Don't take any chances. Burn the body and bury the ash.

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 Why dogs don't marry?
 A: Because they are already leading a dog's life! 

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 There was this guy who told his woman that he loved her so much

 that he would go through hell for her. They got married and now he is 

  going thru hell.

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 Fact of life: One woman brings you into this world crying & the

 other ensures you continue to do so for the rest of your life! 

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 Q: Why doesn't law permit a man to marry a second woman?

 A: Because as per law you cannot be punished twice for the same

 offence!

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 Here comes the Ultimate One :)
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 Prospective husband: Do you have a book called 'Man, The Master 

 of Women'?

 Salesgirl: The fiction department is on the other side, sir.

I Will Not Die‏

                    I will not die an unlived life.

          I will not live in fear of falling or catching fire.

I choose to unhabit my  days, to allow my living to open me,

         to make me less afraid, more accessible,

                             to lossen my heart

         until it become a wing, a torch, a promise.

     I choose to risk my significance, to live so that

which comes to me as seed goes to the next blossom

and that which comes to me as blossom, goes on as fruits.           

Write on me your pain‏

Write on me your pain
And I'll wash it out in the rain
Write on me your smiles
And I'll treasure them all the while

I can only be as much as you are
If you let me I'll be the sky for your stars 
I can only see what you don't hide
If you let me
I'll be your sky

All I want you to do is write on me
I want my every single part
To reflect what's in your heart
All I want you to do
Is write on me 
In every single way
Want to know you
More each day

Write on me your thoughts
I'll make sure you know mine
Write on me your feelings
I'll wait if you need more time

I can only be as much as you are 
If you let me I'll be the night for your fire
I can only see what you don't hide
If you let me
I'll be your night

All I want you to do is write on me
I want my every single part
To reflect what's in your heart 
All I want you to do
Is write on me
In every single way
Want to know you
More each day

Struggle a Little

Sometimes stuggles are exactly what we need in our Life.

If we were to go through life without any obstacles,

               it would cripple us.

We would not be as strong as we could have been

         and we could never fly.

so the next time you are faced with an obstacles,

       a challenge, or a problem,

      struggle a little - then fly!

~*~Who Started Christmas~*~‏

"Who Started Christmas"


A woman was Christmas shopping with her two children.. After many hours of 
  walking down row after row of toys and after hours of hearing both her
  children asking for everything they saw on those many shelves, she finally 
  made it to the store elevator with her two children in hand.

 

  She was feeling what so many of us feel during the holiday season time of 
  the year, getting that perfect gift for every single person on our shopping 
  list, overwhelming pressure to go to every party, every housewarming, taste
  all the holiday food and treats, making sure we don't forget anyone on our 
  card list, and the pressure of making sure we respond to everyone who sent 
  us a card.

 

  Finally the elevator doors opened revealing a crowd in the elevator. She pushed 
  her way in and dragged her two kids and all her bags of stuff in with her. 

 

  As the doors closed she couldn't take it anymore and blurted out, 

 

"Whoever started this whole Christmas thing 

 

should be found, strung up, and shot." 

 

  From the back of the car, a quiet calm voice responded, 

 

"Don't worry, we've already crucified Him." 

 

The rest of the trip down was so quiet you could 
  have heard a pin drop.

 

  Don't forget this year to keep the One who started this whole Christmas 
  thing in your every thought, deed, purchase, and word. 

 

If we all would, just think how much better this world would be. 

 

Jesus is the reason for the season 

 

Wise men still seek Him 

LOVE - IT IS BEAUTIFUL‏

 

 
  Love would never be a promise of a Rose garden,
  Unless It Is showered with light of faith,
  Water of Sincerity and air of Passion.
 
 

  Love Is much like a wild rose,
  Beautiful and calm, 
  But willing to draw ,
  Blood In Its defense.  
 
 
  Love Is a symbol of eternity.  
  It wipes out all sense of time, 
  Destroying all memory,
  Of a beginning and all fear of an end !!!

Blossom Like A Flower‏

The realization of happiness only happens after experience of pain.

      If we desire to Blossom Like A Flower‏ in the garden of Life,

Then we must learn art of adjusting our Life with the Thorns!

Keep Dreaming‏

Afraid of what I would see
If I peeked inside,
I became deaf and dumb
To the emotions that my heart cried out;



The day slowly slips by
Bringing nothing to conclusion
Bringing nothing new to light,
It slowly dragged on the inevitable;



With every step that I take,
My confidence grows even further
Allowing me to take on everything
Allowing me to acknowledge my emotions;



Like a wild fire, that went out of control,
The madness around me morphed from a 
Child with no fears, into an adult
Scared to accept what my hearts cries out;



It seems that I knew this forever,
Lying within me, making it presence felt now and then,
Like the seasons changing,
My mind changed what I once thought was forever;



Time slipped so quickly,
And before I could take a breath,
I realized it’s now or never,
I realized how much I had lost;



Shrouded by the safe haven I built around me,
I failed to acknowledge the beautiful sun shining outside,
I failed to notice the chirping of the birds,
I forgot to laugh and smile enjoying the things I like to do;



As each wave of emotions came in slowly,
Under the bright light of the moon,
I stood here hypnotized by the glow of
What life still has to offer;



Amidst the chaos of my soul,
One dim light still flickered on,
Strong enough to prevent the
Darkness engulfing my soul completely;



Strong enough to keep the
River of dreams flowing
To keep dreaming of a wonderful
Beginning for you and me together;

Exercise to Remove Stress.....‏

Exercise to Remove Stress..... 
To reduce tension in the office or wherever 



Do these facial exercises every two hours 
It is good for stress-relief ! 

Exercise to Remove Stress.....