Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Good one‏

Morning is God's way of saying: 
'One more time Live Life... Make a difference.. . 
Touch one Heart... Encourage One Mind.. 
And inspire one Soul. 'Good morning...

  

Every great improvement comes has after repeated failures.. 

Virtually nothing comes out at the first time.. 

Never lose your confidence... 

Good morning.. 

  

Trust is like an elastic, being stretched by 2 people... 

As long as U hold on U will be happy.. 

The moment one leaves the other gets terrible pain!!! 

Good morning... 

  

When you Hate someone, even their love will hurt you... 

when you Love some one , even their hurting will be lovable.. 

Good morning.. 

  

All D the waters in D ocean could never sink a ship unless its get inside... 

All D pressures of life can never hurt unless U let in.. 

Good morning,, 

  

Silence is the fence around wisdom.. 

If UR foot slips U can always regain balance.. 

BUT if UR tongue slips U can Never recall the words.. 

Good morning.. 

  

EYES- express D real feelings better than words.. 

TOUCH - shows D care than any words.. 

But WORDS -when used properly can catch D EYES and TOUCH D heart.. 

Good morning.. 


 Changing your friends according to situations is not friendship

Changing situations for your friends is friendship.



Jealousy arises from lack of confidence, 

not in others, but in oneself"




Working Through Disagreements 

  

We all have disagreements. To clash at times with family and friends is a part of life. Whether we simply have a difference of opinion with someone or engage in an argument, disagreements offer an opportunity for us to learn and grow. 



One of the most important things we can do when we find ourselves in disagreement with anyone, whether they are close to us or not, is to try to remain calm and to be respectful. When we disagree over something minor, we usually just engage in some playful squabbling. However, when we are discussing something of importance to us, or if we disagree with someone we don't particularly like, it may be difficult to keep from becoming angry and exchanging harsh words. From there, it's all too easy for a disagreement to escalate and become a full blown shouting match. 



During any disagreement, it's important to be respectful and let the other person state their opinion. Then listen and really try to hear what the other person is saying. Try to understand not just their words, but their feelings as well. Understanding is more important than agreeing. You may not come to an agreement, but you can agree to disagree and still keep peace. 



If a disagreement starts to get heated, take a deep breath and stop talking. Make eye contact and as difficult as it may be, send the other person love. Try to find compassion. Chances are, there will be an energy shift and both of you will become calmer and better able to discuss your differences. 



We shouldn't however, withdraw from those close to us when they want to discuss issues. As uncomfortable as conflict may be, when we are able to work through disagreements the relationship is strengthened. Disagreements offer us a chance to become more accepting, loving, people and give others the chance to do the same 



I WISH YOU 

Comfort on difficult days, Smiles when sadness intrudes, 


Rainbows to follow the clouds, Laughter to feel your lips, 


Sunsets to warm your heart, Gentle hugs when spirits sag, 


Friendships to brighten your being, Beauty for your eyes to see, 


Confidence for when you doubt, Faith so that you can believe, 


Courage to know yourself, Patience to accept the truth, 


And love to complete your life.

   



 Frustration

 It may seem that outside events and conditions are what cause frustration. 

 But those outside circumstances are merely excuses, and do not actually create the frustration. 

The frustration you experience is created by you. 

It is a product of your own mind and your own ego, and cannot exist without your support. 

Your frustration is a choice. 

And just as easily as you can choose to experience it, you can also choose to let it go. 

Remember that the next time you feel frustrated. 

Remember that it does not have to be. 

Frustration blinds you to the best possibilities, and puts valuable resources out of your reach. 

There is no question that you'll be far more effective without that frustration. 

So when you find yourself frustrated, choose right then and there to raise your awareness to a higher level. 

See how useless and unnecessary that frustration really is. 

Then let it go, and free you to move quickly ahead. 


  Did God Make You?
Grandpa and granddaughter were sitting talking when she asked, "Did God make you, Grandpa?"
"Yes, God made me," the grandfather answered.
A few minutes later, the little girl asked him, "Did God make me too?"
"Yes, He did," the older man answered.
For a few minutes, the little girl seemed to be studying her grandpa, as well as her own reflection in the mirror, while her grandfather wondered what was running through her mind. At last she spoke up.
"You know, Grandpa," she said, "God's doing a lot better job lately.


   

The Law of Attraction does not care whether you perceive something to be good or bad, or whether you don't want it or whether you want it. The law of attraction is a law of nature. It is impersonal and it does not see good things or bad things. It is receiving your thoughts and reflecting back to you those thoughts as your life experience. The law of attraction simply gives you whatever it is you are thinking about. 



A man once visited a temple under construction where he saw a sculptor making an idol of God. Suddenly he noticed a similar idol lying nearby. Surprised, he asked the sculptor, "Do you need two statues of the same idol?" "No," said the sculptor without looking up, "We need only one, but the first one got damaged at the last stage." The gentleman examined the idol and found no apparent damage. "Where is the damage?" he asked. "There is a scratch on the nose of the idol." said the sculptor, still busy with his work. "Where are you going to install the idol?" The sculptor replied that it would be installed on a pillar twenty feet high. "If the idol is that far, who is going to know that there is a scratch on the nose?" the gentleman asked. 

 The sculptor stopped his work, looked up at the gentleman, smiled and said, "I will know it."



IF WE CANNOT LOVE THE PERSON WHOM WE SEE,... HOW CAN WE LOVE GOD,WHOM WE CANNOT SEE ? 

  

IF YOU WIN YOU NEED NOT EXPLAIN, BUT IF YOU LOSE YOU SHOULD

NOT BE THERE TO EXPLAIN  

  

IF YOU WANT REAL PEACE,.... DON'T TALK TO YOUR FRIENDS,...TALK WITH YOUR ENEMIES  

  

WINNING DOESN'T ALWAYS MEAN BEING FIRST,..... WINNING MEANS YOU'RE DOING BETTER THAN YOU'VE DONE BEFORE  

   

IN A DAY, WHEN YOU DON'T COME ACROSS ANY PROBLEMS YOU CAN BE SURE THAT YOU ARE TRAVELLING IN A WRONG PATH  


THREE SENTENCES FOR GETTING SUCCESS: 


A) KNOW MORE THAN OTHER


B) WORK MORE THAN OTHER


C) EXPECT LESS THAN OTHER 

  



1.Live a balanced life and avoid overspending. 

 2.Don't buy things we don't need. 

3.Don't buy Branded good's. 

4.Don't buy excess Food, Cloths, Cosmetics, Footwear, electronics and Fashion accuracies just think before you buy. 

Tip: World still has a lot of growth ahead and the future holds immense opportunities for us. Let us make the most of it and save and invest it wisely instead of wasting our precious little on things we don't need. 

5.Try to balance life with work (No one is happy to work in their profession's) . 

6. Don't stress out your self, after work try to do some extra activities like swimming, yoga, walking, running where you can divert your mind from stress. 

A thumb rule: Health is more important than money. 

7.Try to understand each other (Wife and Husband) in financial matter's and help each other. 

Tip: As soon as you get your monthly salary, set aside a fixed amount, usually 35 per cent, for insurance, savings and investments. You can then spend the rest. 

8. Not all loans are bad. Loans that are 'need based' (home loans, education loans) can always find a place in your finances against those that are largely 'want based' (Credit cards, personal loans, car loans). 

9. Borrow only if repayment is financially comfortable. 


A thumb rule: Keep EMIs within 35 to 45 per cent of your monthly income 

In that respect, there is one American who I really respect - WARREN BUFFET. He has lived in the same ordinary house for over three decades, drives his own medium sized car and leads an extremely regular 'middle class' life. If that's all it takes for the richest person on earth to be happy, why do all of us need to take extra stress just so that we can get things which aren't even essential? 

  'If I can help somebody as I pass along, if I can cheer somebody with a word or song, if I can show somebody that he's traveling wrong, then my living shall not be in vain.'



The desire to excel is exclusive of the fact whether someone else appreciates it or not. "Excellence" is a drive from inside, not outside. 


Excel at a task today - not necessarily for someone else to notice but for your own satisfaction and excellence.


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The most beautiful thing is to see a person smiling...And even more beautiful is................


A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. 

He held up a sign which said: 'I am blind, please help.' 

There were only a few coins in the hat. A man was walking by. 

He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. 

He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. 

He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see

the new words. 


Soon the hat began to fill up. A lot more people were giving money to 

the blind boy. That afternoon the man who had changed the sign came

to see how things were. The boy recognized his footsteps and asked, 

'Were you the one who changed my sign this morning? What did you 

write?'

The man said, 'I only wrote the truth. I said what you said but in a 

different way.' What he had written was: 'Today is a beautiful day

and I cannot see it.' 


Do you think the first sign and the second sign were saying the 

same thing? 


Of course both signs told people the boy was blind. But the first

sign simply said the boy was blind. The second sign told people 

they were so lucky that they were not blind. Should we be surprised

that the second sign was more effective? 


Moral of the Story: Be thankful for what you have. Be creative. 

Be innovative. Think differently and positively.


Invite others towards good with wisdom. Live life with no excuse 

and love with no regrets. When life gives you a 100 reasons to cry, 

show life that you have 1000 reasons to smile. Face your past 

without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for 

the future without fear. Keep the faith and drop the fear. 


Great men say, 'Life has to be an incessant process of repair and 

reconstruction, of discarding evil and developing goodness.... 

In the journey of life, if you want to travel without fear, you must 

have the ticket of a good conscience.' 


The most beautiful thing is to see a person smiling

And even more beautiful is knowing that you are the reason behind it !!!! 



HAVE A LOVELY WEEK END

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